Let’s say you finally asked the woman of your dreams out on a date, she said yes to you, or you bumped into an old-time friend, discovering you both have lots of catching up to do. Asking the right questions will spice up your conversations, put you in control, and on the right track to uncovering her as a person.
This content is for you if the above scenario best suits your condition. With you in mind, we have put together a list of 50 engaging questions to ask a girl, all grouped into five categories. A tip would be to avoid questions that require short answers.
10 Questions To Ask A Girl To Know Her Better
This category is for a girl you just met. They are usually lighter but uncovers a lot.
Who’s your favorite fashion designer?
She gets to know you pay attention to details, she must have taken her time to get dressed. Asking this question will mean you have noticed what she’s wearing.
Where are you from?
Asking this question will not just tell you where she is from, but will give you an idea of what culture and values she possesses. You might be lucky she is from a place you are familiar with, which means you two will have a lot to talk about.
What goals do you want to achieve?
With her response, you will know if she is ambitious or goal-driven. Men find these kinds of girls interesting. You both could end up spending minutes or hours talking about dreams and sharing business ideas.
What is your favorite get-away habit?
This question will give you an in-depth understanding of what she does to relieve stress or depression. Men get stressed, and depressed too. You could end up learning a thing or two. This question will also uncover what makes her happy. In the end, she could interpret you asking as being caring enough to find out what makes her happy.
What is your favorite food?
Asking this question will result in having an idea of what restaurant to take her to on the next date. Or what to cook if she decides to come home for dinner someday.
What is your ideal man?
With this question, you will know the kind of man she dreams of and an idea of what she wants in a relationship. You will end up self-examining yourself to see if you have a chance with her or the other way round.
What genre of movies or TV shows interests you?
This question is a natural conversation kick-starter. You both will end up introducing yourselves to new movies and TV shows, with that you will get to know what kind of a person she is in general. If she is into romance, then you understanding a part of her craves love and affection.
What do you do for fun?
You will get to find out if she is quite an interesting person.
What would it be if you could ask me anything?
Asking this question will give you an idea of what side of you gets her attention. It could also reveal hidden agendas if she has any. It is to be a good conversation kick-starter too.
Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
This one will help you know if she is an outgoing person or not. Knowing this will prevent you from overstepping boundaries.
10 Questions To Make Her Laugh
Do you have a guilty pleasure? What is it?
Everyone has a thing or two they enjoy doing but not in the open, making her talk about them will be a window for an open conversation. In response, tell her about yours too, let out the same energy.
What do you do to a guy for fun?
Asking a girl this question will make her laugh if she is guilty as charged. This question will uncover her mindset, revealing what she probably will do with you sooner or later. It will for sure help you understand her even more.
What is the weirdest food you’ve eaten and loved?
Many people have gone through situations where they find themselves eating what they find weird and unusual, the funny thing is, they ended up loving it. Go on and ask her, you will be surprised at what instances she has to share with you. Share yours too if you’ve been down that road.
What funny pick-up lines have you had thrown at you?
Every pretty, and attractive girl has had their share of funny, and weird pick-up lines thrown at them in different circumstances. These lines could be so funny that you both end up laughing hard.
I, a panda, and rabbit: kiss one, hug one, and cuddle one?
Lots of cracking up are guaranteed if this question is asked. At this point, I bet you would be curious as to what her choice would be, either way, whatever she picks you to end up being a winner. Asking this will give you an idea of what she has in mind to do with you.
Nice or naughty: How would you describe yourself?
Being a straightforward question, it will make her think for a bit. No matter the answer make sure she justifies it. Laughing and giggling will be inevitable.
What would you have me do to make you laugh?
This question will put you in the spotlight. She could ask you to dance, spin, sing, wear lipstick, etc. No matter what it is be ready to do it else you will appear to be a bore. One thing is guaranteed, this question will spark your relationship with her.
If you have the power to be invisible for one day, what will you do?
This question will lead to lots of other conversations as there are more than a hundred things she will love to do. I bet what she will have to say will be funny.
If allowed to be a man for 24hrs, what will you do?
This is a fun question to ask a girl, you’d be surprised as to how funny her answers would be. Pay attention to what she has to say, this could be an added advantage to you in the future.
What funny pranks have you pulled on someone?
Asking this question will uncover if she is a prank star or not. At some point, we all have pulled a few pranks on people. What she has to say might be funny.
10 Romantic Questions To Ask A Girl
What romantic movies have you seen? Which did you find very romantic?
Mere knowing what romantic movies she finds interesting will give you an idea of her ideal love fantasy. By asking, she begins to think about it, you both end up talking a lot more about her favorite scenes. Ask her if it will be okay to see the movie together, if she agrees, then you know you are off to a good start.
Who’s on your favorite romantic playlist?
Asking this question will uncover a new dimension of conversations. You get to talk about one of her favorite romance musicians. You could both exchange or update your playlist. This is bound to build a bond. Imagine a scenario where your favorite artist is also hers.
What makes you feel loved?
This question will remind her what it feels like to be loved while she talks about them. Pay 100% attention to this part.
What do you find attractive in a man?
She could go on to talk about all the characteristics she finds attractive, that which you possess.
How do you know a guy is in love with you?
Asking this question is kind of like hitting the nail on the head, this will hint her about your intentions.
What if I say I love you?
This automatically tells her you love her without directly saying it out. Her response could be revealing, you never can tell.
Where would you travel for a romantic holiday?
For a fact, she is going to air out a destination, don’t end the conversation there, make her tell you why, and what activities would she be involved in. You could create a replica of those activities in the future if the cost of traveling would be too expensive.
Do you believe in soul mates?
If she does, then she believes in love. If you do too then you both might just be fit for each other.
When was your first kiss?
Who knows? You could be lucky she’s never had one (rare scenarios), and you could be the guy best fit for that position. If she has had one, you could both talk about how it made her feel.
Are relationships meant to last forever?
This will give you an understanding of what she thinks of a relationship. If she is a short or long-term runner.
10 Deep Questions To Ask A Girl
You could go on with having deep conversations if you feel you both are beginning to have a connection, a connection that involves trust. Below is a list of deep questions to ask a girl without being a turn-off.
- What would you rather be remembered for?
- Where do you get inspiration from?
- If you had the opportunity to make a change in the world, what would it be?
- Do you want to get married someday?
- What happened to your last relationship? If she is single.
- What ambitions do you have in life?
- Do you believe God exists?
- What is your worst nightmare?
- Would you prefer being unique to understanding?
- Where do you see yourself in the next five years?
10 Random Questions To Ask A Girl
As of now, are you passionate about anything?
Chatting with a girl about the things she loves the most will make her open up more to you. To her, it means declaration of interest and with time she gets comfortable sharing those positive feelings with you, and that’s a good thing.
What would you change if you could go back in time?
Asking this question will let you know if she is the type who loves to live in the past, and if she has regrets. It could be a topic to build a conversation on.
Do you love to travel?
For some reason, this could be a good question. Why? Because, for a man who loves to travel, you will realize how compatible you both are in the exploration and adventure department. Also, this will give you an idea of how to go about other conversations with her. If she travels a lot as you do, you automatically have a lot to talk about, especially if you’ve both been to the same country or place, having experienced their cultures and values.
What do you consider a deal-breaker in relationships?
Imagine if the answer to this question is something you also do agree with. Her response will not just be a great topic to build on but will make her wonder what being in a relationship with you will be like.
Ever had a crazy adventure?
Her response will tell you if she is fun or not. Through this question, you will discover if she is a thrill-seeker. If she is, you could be more direct with your conversations. It will be an opportunity to facilitate your relationship. If she appears to be conservative, taking things easy will be ideal.
Do you have a favorite time of the year?
Asking this question will result in finding common grounds. It will make you understand each other better.
What do you love about where you grew up?
Knowing a thing or two about a girl will always be an added advantage. If she starts talking about the things she loves about where she grew up, that means she is beginning to feel comfortable around you. Knowing this will give you an idea of where she will love to have a family of her own.
What are your secret talents?
If she has any and she talks about them, that is a good thing. Because the more stuff you know about her, the closer you both get.
As a kid, what were you like?
Asking this question will lead to other fun conversations. Getting to know what a girl enjoyed doing as a kid could give room for teasing.
What’s your definition of a perfect date?
Do not forget to pay attention to what she has to say in response to this question. Her response will give you an idea of what she looks out for on a date. Understanding this will help you plan out other future dates.
Conversations are the kick-starters to building bonds and long-lasting relationships. Sometimes keeping up with these conversations are challenging, especially with men who are either shy, or newbies when it comes to talking to the girl they find interesting.
The above listed 50 questions to ask a girl will for sure yield interesting conversations, make you understand each other, and build bonds.